This makes me have no hope in humanity. So I have to go get fitted for a bridesmaid dress this weekend. Katie is usually a 2 and had to get a BUT where is y'all at? I have yet to find another lol. All this phrase is to me is a way of telling bigger girls that they do not deserve love, and they should be happy with any attention they get.
Let me be clear: this is not a fat-hating post. When I look in the mirror, for the most part, I like what I see. But with brothers I find, that they, too, have internalized a particular relationship to the body-type most associated with the mammy figure. They usually find us comforting.