Dear friends, within the past year, a large number of Autostraddle writers and friends have experienced breakups of various intensities and complications — so much so that we have an entire Slack channel devoted to the topic. There is no shortage of emotions to process, including so many dark, disturbing questions about the future. Here are some of the things one might ask oneself about your breakup, as brainstormed by various thriving souls who are totally okay at various points over the past month or so. Okay cool. What if they were right about [thing they accused me of being during a really bad fight]. Do I get a robe and a cigar when my divorce paperwork goes through or do I have to self-supply?
How to Recover from Lesbian Breakups - LEZ BACKPACK
It was April That had never happened to me before. So, very quickly and intensely, we were both hooked. And she was beautiful and ephemeral, great in bed and hard to pin down. She ended it by phone, from miles away. After we hung up, the room spun. I huddled in my stuffed green chair, crying.
The Worst Break Up of My Life (and How I Survived)
Whether you have left your partner, or she has left you, surviving a lesbian break-up is hard. Sometimes it may feel like you may never recover from the break-up. But you will. These tips might make recovering from a break-up easier.
By Mallory Muffman. When my relationship with my long-term girlfriend came to an end, so did a part of me that existed when we were together. She was my first real girlfriend. When we came to an end I went through depression and felt lost for a long time. I had forgotten who I was without her.